Gift that no one accepts

Quote & Thought for the Day -- Thursday, 1 Jan '09

“If someone offers you a gift, and you decline to accept it, the other person still owns that gift. The same is true of insults and verbal attacks.”

--Steve Pavlina

My Thoughts:
Has someone ever accepted your insults, abuses, etc? If the answer is YES that this quote is relevant to you and if the answer is NO then this quote MORE relevant to you.

When you are insulting someone, you are actually insulting your conscience. You are the one who is bearing all the bad things in your mind, on your tongue.

All with your consent

Quote & Thought for the Day -- Monday, 25 Aug '08

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent"

--Eleanor Roosevelt

My Thoughts:
Many people think that they are inferior to others. Doctors call this mental illness as Inferiority Complex. This usually develops when people compare themselves with others and find that they lack something what others have.

I think it is very important to understand that Allah Almighty has made each one of us Unique. We may not necessarily have the same world things that others have and vice-versa. But this in no way make us inferior to others, this just differentiate us from others and make us unique.

It’s only your thinking which makes you feel inferior. But also note that thinking that you are superior to others would not make you superior (Superiority complex.) It is by acts and deeds that one becomes superior to others.

What do you think about this….?